During the past few years the phrase "emotional literacy" has entered our culture's vocabulary. Daniel Goleman’s best-selling book, Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ, (Bantam, 1995), has brought this critically important issue into the national consciousness. New research has indicated that emotional literacy is the key factor predicting success or failure in all aspects of human relationships – work, family, friendships – and in the well-being and optimism that is the consequence of self-esteem.
So what is emotional literacy? Emotional literacy is the ability to identify, manage, and express one’s emotions in a mature and conscientious manner. With this ability comes the capacity to empathize with the feelings of others.
Throughout society, the cost of emotional illiteracy is staggering: abusive behavior toward others or oneself; high levels of frustration, anger, sadness, and personal suffering; inept parenting; addictions of all sorts; and much physical disease. Emotional illiteracy is an underlying cause of most crime. To address this issue, Partakers offers in-depth courses in emotional literacy to prisoners. We recruit volunteers from outside prison to participate in these courses.
The good news is that emotional literacy skills can be learned at any time in life. Becoming emotionally literate results in the ability to read one's own feelings as well as the feelings of others.When people develop emotional literacy skills, they are better able to identify, express, and manage their feelings. There are greater options for effectively dealing with stress and tension. There is greater impulse control. There is heightened self-awareness and self-understanding. Social skills and the ability to communicate effectively are enhanced. Consequently, behaviors and attitudes that arise from emotional literacy support and reflect self-esteem, empathy, and appropriate action in the world.
The cultivation of emotional literacy nurtures and elicits the best in people. Unfortunately, the current climate of prison life so often elicits the worst. This said, it surely makes sense to offer resources to support emotional literacy for every prisoner as well as Partakers volunteers.
If we truly want public safety then emotional literacy needs to be a national priority. Visit the website of the National Emotional Literacy Project: www.lionheart.org.